Wednesday 3 August 2016

Don’t let anyone bring you down. Have the courage to say No!!!

Don’t let anyone bring you down. Have the courage to say No!!!


In today’s era, everyone wants success; everyone is running and running. In the race of success people forgot to respect others and themselves. We all encounter many people in our life who attempt to break our spirit. What we don’t realize is that it totally depends on us to decide how we allow others to make us feel and whether or not we allow them to shape us into a person we are not.

Some of the traits of these individuals I can describe here:
  1. They are shy,
  2. They pretend they are strong but have a very soft corner,
  3. They do not want to hurt others,
  4. Lack of confidence to say - Yes or No

It’s not their mistake to be true or so good. Here I would just like to help those people who allow others to hold their live in their hand. Most of us might have come across people who dominate others, try to humiliate them. Be it at office or at home, by their companions and relatives etc. But then I feel who permits them to do so? It is we, and no other.

Why we allow anyone to dominate us directly or indirectly?Here is the point to which every person should follow in their lives and to be a real you:
  1. Be True to yourself.
  2. Be Happy for what you are.
  3. Never judge yourself on others points
  4. Don’t try to impress others instead impress your self
  5. Always take a challenge for everyday how you can make yourself smile
  6. And the very important thing is “Self-Respect”. When you do this you will have a great feeling of Satisfaction in your heart.

Don’t give a lot of significance to others musings and in person. They are not going to help you in any way. The main individual who can help you is remaining before your mirror.

Remember in Life nothing is achievement until you become good to yourself. When you win your heart then and then only you will be an incredible achiever. The Individual who respect and love themselves is the Happiest Person on earth :)
  1. Do give answer to these questions and realize your identity.
  2. Do you see Dreams?
  3. Do you really care yourself?
  4. Do you plan for the things which you thought you are going to do in this Life?
  5. Do you try to give your best in every work you do?
  6. Do your ever meet your own expectations with yourself? 

The last one I think is rare because many people develop high expectations from others but set the expectations for self much low. This in long run leads to disappointment. I hope by going through with this article everyone will respect themselves and never allow anyone to let them down. Remember if you constantly let yourself down you are never going to have your self esteem and confidence.

First Respect yourself then others. Love yourself then others. Live for yourself then help others to live there life.

“A value is valuable when the value of value is valuable to oneself”. By Dayananda Saraswati

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